Se.x is an integral part of marriage. It not only fulfills the bond between to people but it brings pleasure and fulfillment to both partners.
Relationship in this era is now a tricky thing. People are afraid of ending up with the wrong type of partner so whether we approve of it or not, you can’t take se.x out of relationships in this modern days relationship.
But something that is supposed to bring pleasure fulfillment and strengthen the bond two people is fast becoming the tool destroying the union.
Although the act itself is paramount, some of the things that happen in during the act can kill the mood or elevate the mood.
Some things are better left unsaid, especially during se.x. we have compiled a list of what you should avoid saying to your partner in bed.
Are you done yet
Where are you rushing off to? Keep calm and enjoy the ride. No one needs that kind of pressure. Wait for him to finish when he’s ready, he waited for you right? Rushing an orgasm is just bad manners.
Surely there will be things that he suggests for you to try that you’re not comfortable with. Don’t completely turn him down, rather ask that you do it differently.
My ex used to it like this
Nobody wants to hear about exes – period. It will just raise eyebrows about the relationship – you might still have with your ex. Besides, there’s a reason you two brokeup.
Let me just do it myself
This applies mostly to foreplay. If your man isn’t getting you where you want to be, don’t snap. Rather show him what makes you hot. Saying this will make him skip the foreplay and get straight into the act. You wouldn’t want that, right?
Is it in yet
Maybe you’re not sure whether you’re being tickled or pinched, regardless, just keep quiet. Imagine what this statement will do to his self-confidence if he’s small down there? Remember he might have tricks up his sleeves to blow your mind away, small as he is.
Please pass me my phone
If your phone rings, leave it alone; surely that person can wait for a couple of minutes. This is a mood killer and is sure to avoid it, unless someone is on the verge of death.
Is that it
If your man is a 5-minuter, there’s no need to remind him – he probably knows and is too embarrassed about it. Rather find ways – like exercising techniques – to help him last longer. it will benefit the both of you, which means more rounds!